Built to Last: Rethinking How We Age (and Why We Play!)
When the world turned upside down in 2020, I had to completely reimagine how to deliver movement safely. I quickly discovered that the magic of the studio could actually transcend physical walls. I started offering hybrid series so my local Mountain View clients could slowly return to the room, while those across the country, or those who just needed the flexibility of a recorded session when life got busy, could still be a vital part of our community.
What began as a necessity evolved into a beautiful, progressive journey. Unlike a drop-in virtual class, a hybrid series builds over a finite number of cohesive sessions. We form genuine connections, share plenty of laughs, and tackle our goals as a united front. But as life shifts again, I am preparing to host my final hybrid series this Fall.
Types of Aging
Before I explain why this is the grand finale, I want to share a fascinating revelation from a continuing education course I recently attended. We often think of aging as a single, unchangeable number, but there are actually five different types of aging:
- Chronological Age: The number of candles on your birthday cake. We can’t change this one, but we can definitely impact the other four!
- Biological Age: Your age on a cellular level, heavily influenced by how you nourish and move your body.
- Physical Age: How capably you perform your daily activities of living, from reaching a high shelf to getting down on the floor to play with kids or grandkids.
- Psychological Age: The health and agility of your brain.
- Social Age: The level of community and connection in your life. Isolation can negatively impact this, but moving together, even on a screen, breathes vitality into our social age.
Is your body Built to Last?
In my upcoming 10-session series, Built to Last, I am specifically targeting those last four controllable categories with a heavy dose of joy.
To make this series exceptionally fun and uniquely effective, I am introducing two brand-new elements to our curriculum:
- Dual-Task Solo and Buddy Training: We are taking brain fitness to the next level with dual-task training. These are engaging solo or buddy activities where you simultaneously challenge your brain and your body. Expect a lot of laughter as we navigate these together! And if you are joining us virtually from home, don’t worry, you won’t miss out on the fun. You will still get all the brain-boosting benefits and laughs as I coach you through them on screen. Even better, once you learn these activities, you can easily repeat them later with a friend or family member!
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Yoga Blocks for Breakthroughs: For the first time, I am incorporating yoga blocks into our Pilates practice. I will coach you on using these props creatively to facilitate healthy alignment. They are fantastic tools to help you achieve full ranges of motion and skeletal stacking that might feel inaccessible without a little extra support.
Underpinning all of this new fun is our core physical focus. As a physical therapist, my priority is always your safety. We will continue to anchor our movements in three essential pillars to ensure our bodies are truly built to last:
- Skeletal Integrity: We will safely challenge our skeleton with resistance bands and hand weights to create the healthy stress our bones need to maintain density.
- Alignment and Posture: Finding your neutral spine and stacking your joints properly reduces unnecessary wear and tear on your cartilage, helping you move with grace and breathe easier.

- Dynamic Balance: We will wake up those deep stabilizing muscles by safely challenging your balance in real-world ways, such as standing on one leg while moving your arms, or even turning your head to engage your body’s internal balance systems. This ensures you can move through the world feeling grounded and secure. If the idea of practicing dynamic balance sounds intimidating, take a deep breath. As a physical therapist, my priority is always your safety. I am actively coaching, guiding, and watching your form every step of the way to ensure every movement is completely bone-safe and appropriate for your body. You will never just be thrown into a wobbly balance exercise without a solid foundation.
By the end of our 10 sessions, you will walk away with a deeper understanding of your own mechanics, improved postural strength, and a sharper mind-body connection. And, of course, we will celebrate our hard work and newly forged friendships with our traditional end-of-series wrap-up party!
So, why is this the final hybrid series?
Simply put, it is time for a new chapter of flexibility in my own life. Organizing a hybrid format is incredibly labor-intensive, and the cost of physical rental space has climbed exponentially. More importantly, my husband has retired, and I want the freedom to enjoy that with him. I also want the flexibility to visit my mom in New York without being tethered to a tight schedule. When I schedule a hybrid series, I commit to teaching every class.
This final hybrid series is going to be something truly special. Whether you are in the room with me or joining virtually from afar, I invite you to step into this space, laugh through the dual-task challenges, and support this body, your lifelong home, and ensure it’s Built to Last. Classes begin September 15, 2026. Click here to sign up!












Protecting your spinal health means more than avoiding injury; maintaining proper working posture protects your back. For good posture, stand tall with your shoulders positioned back and down in a relaxed manner and your chin parallel to the floor. While seated, aim for a 90-degree bend at your knees and elbows with your spine long and straight. A healthy spine position reduces strain on your muscles and joints and can even make you appear taller and more confident.
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Stay Hydrated: Hydration is crucial when exercising in hot weather, as your body loses water through perspiration. Older adults are more susceptible to dehydration due to decreased thirst sensation. To combat this, it’s essential to drink water before, during, and after physical activity. Avoid alcohol and caffeinated beverages, as they can contribute to dehydration. Carry a water bottle with you and sip regularly to maintain proper hydration levels.
Protect Your Skin: Exercising outdoors increases exposure to harmful UV radiation. Individuals over 50 are particularly vulnerable to sunburn and skin damage. Choose a sunscreen with SPF 30 or higher with broad spectrum protection against UVA and UVB. Reapply sunscreen every two hours, or more frequently if sweating excessively. Seeking shade when possible or exercising under tree cover can provide additional protection from direct sunlight.
Check the thermostat and your ceiling fans: Most gyms/health clubs set their thermostats so the air conditioner runs often and keeps the humidity (and sweat) out of the air! If you have your home A/C set to an economical setting, and you’re doing a high intensity class like HIIT – you may want to make sure your ceiling fans are on and lower your AC for the time it takes you to do a class.
Some people are either or people. I believe both have benefits for improving bone health.
I tell Pilates teachers to load up the springs on the Reformer for leg work for their clients with osteoporosis. If the springs aren’t heavy enough, they won’t gain strength or bone. (of course, ensuring proper form)
Amy Smiley, Age 62




With over 80 active participants from several countries this virtual event was a resounding success! Thanks to your support, we collectively raised $1,625 to benefit the national organization American Bone Health, a nonprofit that I’ve volunteered with for the last 8 years to increase community bone health awareness and fracture prevention.
1) Walking is not considered bone-building exercise but it is great for your heart if you keep up a good pace. It’s also good for osteoporosis in terms of bone maintenance, helping to prevent further bone loss. So keep walking and if you can add hills and vary speed-even better. Keep in mind that we experience about 0.5-1.0% of bone loss yearly. The rate of loss due to menopause can jump to a 2-5% loss those 5-6 years post-menopause due to the dramatic drop in estrogen. If your T score remains the same over time that’s a good thing, you’re preventing loss as what you’re doing is offsetting the natural 0.5-1% yearly loss.
If you are cleared by your healthcare practitioner to use a vest, make sure the vest has a snug fit, is weighted throughout the trunk with the majority of weight close to your hips. Start with a small amount of weight and make sure to use the spine sparing hip hinging technique we practiced in my Osteoporosis Do’s and Don’ts Workshop to avoid rounding your spine.Weighted vests with lunges, squats, step-ups, side lunges and small jumps 3x per week build bone in the hip according to Christine Snow’s bone research lab at Oregon State University.



For those reading this blog that attended my workshop, thank you for being so open, curious and engaged! One question I received was why I use ½ tennis balls rather than a full round tennis ball, for the initial phase of myofascial release of the feet. Here’s my reasoning. First, it’s more malleable and has more compressive give, which is helpful for those with sensitive feet or minimal fat pads on the balls of their feet, a common by-product of aging. The second, and even more critical reason is that you could trip and fall on a round ball! According to the National Council on Aging, people over 65 have a 25% risk of falling. For that reason, introducing a fall hazard like a round small ball would be a poor choice to have underfoot, particularly in a group class.
Finally, I’ve had the opportunity to really explore for myself, what is at the core of my Aging Strong Pilates class, what makes it unique and why do I love teaching it so much? It hit me like a brick. Having a special needs daughter with autism has opened my eyes in wonderful ways, to the necessity of inclusion and connection and to the pure joy that comes with unselfconscious movement. I realize that my relationship with her is what informs really everything I do and who I am. It is at the core of my instructional focus on connection, acceptance, my integration of techniques that promote neuroplasticity, my use of inclusive circle formations for much of our standing work and at times, if I happen to have a small class, I even configure our mats like spokes on a wheel so we can all see and be connected with one another.
